Obstination is commonly found in every man,but the roots of this disease has gotten stronger in a very intial ages,and the man is going to be ruled by his obstination till his last breath which may cause hundreds of blunders in one's life.I am watching every day different kinds of sttuborn kids in my surrounding
.what does mean by stubborn? Doing the forbidden things again and again or create fuss to be get something ,,it is a very simple detail of the word sttuborn.
WHY do the children become sttuborn ?According to my perception,as i was myself very sttuborn from my childhood till today,the extra care or some time the extreme ignorance can lead to the child toward sttuborn,as i was elder baby of my parents and also in my maternal side thats why ultra affection was the genuine cause of my this weakness,I used to do all the activities whether harmful or harm less for me as i always get mysef compel after obstination,any ways the second primary reason of obstiantion which i found among kids is being getting neglected by thier parents,the lack of communiction between parents and kid develop fuss and stubbornness in a child,as commonly observed that some parents just follow thier kids and pull them towards obstination as they get annoy or irritate by thier kids asking for some thing and rather than making them understnd by love and care , they get rid of thier child by following them,so cosy for parents but severely dangerous for kid.
How to handle the sttuborness in kids?
COMMUNICATION between the parents and kids is the key of better nurture to the child.
STORY TELLING is also a good skill to make the kid understand but always remember story should be exemplum.
DO NOT FORBID the kid all the time ,the child may loose his independence and diffident child is not your desire surely.
TAKING PART IN Child's ACTIVITY ON AND OFF would remove worthless fear of parent and develops friendly environment.
COOL AND HOT ATTITUDE both are necessary which runs the kid according to parents.
kids are the precious gift of God ,little effort made for them can give a complete person to our society.
Hello,
Recently I had delivered my second baby girl,she seemed to be a normal child at a glance having appropriate weight too,but by the passage of time i came to know that she had some kind of problem as she did lots of vomit after every feed and March 16 was a very shocking day of my life when she spewed a blood clots.
At last doctor concluded that my little angel is suffering from the heart disease called medically MURMUR
WHAT IS MURMUR ?
Murmurs are the extra heart sound that are produced in the consequence of the turbulent blood flow and can be heard by the help of stethoscope.
TYPES OF MURMUR:
.FUNCTIONAL OR INNOCENT MURMUR
.PATHOLOGICAL MURMUR
First one is a murmur due to the physiological conditions outside the heart and normally harmless and required no specific treatment .
But the pathological murmur is may be the narrowing or leakage valves or may due to the abnormal passage through which the blood flows in or near the heart and some times HOLE IN THE HEART.
Unfortunately my princess has a pathological murmur ,better known hole in a heart ,which is congenital and doctor suggested the open heart surgery as the size of hole is about 10mm.
I must share the most important thing over is that most of the congenital disease in our babies are found due to the some pre delivered process ,for instance RUBELLA which cause severe problems after birth like cataract ,blind or deafness in new born.
I WILL DISCUSS THIS SYNDROM IN MY NEXT BLOG VERY SOON .
THANK,
REGARD 
SABAHAT EHSAN
